hehe, no I haven't dated anyone out of desperation, just saying I know ppl who've done it LOL! I wouldn't date anyone unless there's some physical attraction... but until now haven't really thought of dating again.
Once I've had a very bad date. I was meeting a very handsome guy who I liked very much. It was the first date, and I was very nervous. We went to a restaurant, and I was so anxious about the whole situation so I drank more than usual to feel relaxed. Suddenly I felt that I was drunk, and my behavior was so out of control... I felt more than relaxed... lol... Of course, he's never called me again.
i think "just be your self" just responsible and learn from the mistake, because we are only human, mistake part of our life.. if you full responsible on your act, you will accept and try to correctly in the future for every mistake you made it... but for me, i wait till.. i feel "save" whit my man to do sex.. usually it takes 7 month from 1 dated, because i look for save feeling on my relationship... meanwhile my friend look for pleasure, she like to having fun.. so there wont be same for every person, the most important.. we must responsible for anything we do. (^_^)