Cheating - to say or not to say?

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Permalink Reply by Oksana on June 3, 2008 at 3:42pm

If I were you, I wouldn't say anything.... It's not your business, and it's their private life... Maybe, I'm wrong... But I wouldn't.

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Permalink Reply by Ice on June 3, 2008 at 5:18pm

Being with another girl doesnt mean that he is already cheating. You dont have enough evidence and Oksana is rigt. Even if he is the husband of your bestfriend, it is still their private life. If you smell something fishy, let your friend know by herself.

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Permalink Reply by Fiona on June 3, 2008 at 7:36pm

I will give you my opinion based on what you've said and won't even imagine the whole picture... sounds like your friend trusts her husband and has no clue of what really is going on. You saw him but are not sure he was cheating? hmm, you have no evidence like Ice said. But he wouldn't have lied to his wife if it was just a night out with a "friend" right? I think it's too soon to say anything, obviously you feel bad for your friend but I guess you'll need to do some surveillance work to find out more clues! hehe... You know your friend more than I do and may guess what her reaction could be if you alarmed her with such a statement like "i saw ur man with another woman"... who knows maybe she will find out by herself before you feel the need to say something.

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Permalink Reply by Helen on June 4, 2008 at 10:34am

Thank you girls... I don't know what to do... It feels horrible... I remember one of my friends told me that she saw my bf with another girl....and I felt really bad, but then I found out that the girl was our friend and he didn't cheated me,,, Maybe here is the same situation? But why he didn't tell her about the party?

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Permalink Reply by GlamourGirl on June 4, 2008 at 10:59am

Dont feel bothered. Im sure your friend would know if his husband is doing some dirty business. Just dont worry too much.

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Permalink Reply by Abraham on June 4, 2008 at 1:31pm

Helen you sent the pictures on your friend's home address if she ll know about that dirty business then avoid that pictures and if she ll not .... then may be she asked to her husband.

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Permalink Reply by Oksana on June 4, 2008 at 3:40pm

I agree with you, this is their business. If one person cheats, another person can feel it... If she doesn't, it means that their relationship is not so perfect...

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Permalink Reply by Abraham on June 4, 2008 at 1:28pm

OK!
I think you capture some pictures in you mobile and Deliver to your friend house with anonymous name.

I think you don,t waste time and your friend life.

May Be I am wrong.

Abee

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Permalink Reply by Helen on June 4, 2008 at 2:05pm

I think that's too cruel...

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Permalink Reply by Fiona on June 4, 2008 at 5:27pm

Helen, are you sure it was a cheat? If it's not maybe you can step out a little and maybe she'll then tell you her doubts... if she does then I think your suspicions are right.

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Permalink Reply by Abraham on June 4, 2008 at 7:19pm

Helen you friend is married so just tell me that,s love marriage or arrange ?

If Arrange marry then she,s don,t know about that other dirty business!
If Love marry then she,s know about that husband activities, i am sure!

I am sent message again here because when i listen about that one husband cheat with her wife so i was shocked. Well helen don,t worry. You heart have good for your friend so GOD always help you because GOD is almighty . :)

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Permalink Reply by Ice on June 5, 2008 at 4:17pm

Is there an arranged marriage?

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