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SO CONFUSED
ok anyone out there that can help me out on this one would be amazing...
back in November my roomate had a guy comin up to visit her...he asked if he could bring on of his frineds up so that me and him could possibly hook up...i agreed... then after a week we were seein each other.....he told me that he had a lil girl and i had no problems with that... so we were going out for 5 months and then he decides that he is gettin back with the mother of the lil girl cause he was missin out on her life... but this is where it gets comfusing.... he left the mother in the first place because of all the fighting and the no emitoin that she showed towards him...... but now he is back with her and is back to the same thing constantly fighting and she doesnt show any affection towards him at all no cuddles.. no lovin.. even has his own separate blanket for the bed...... i just want if it is a good idea that he is forcing this realtionship just for Lil B or is it going to end again??? and can someone honestly have a realtionship with no affection towards eachother???? and another thing is that we have been apart for lil over a month and he has gotten back with me 3 times already....and he still goes on about how much he still cares and how i spoiled him and that there is no one that can turn him on like i can.
back in November my roomate had a guy comin up to visit her...he asked if he could bring on of his frineds up so that me and him could possibly hook up...i agreed... then after a week we were seein each other.....he told me that he had a lil girl and i had no problems with that... so we were going out for 5 months and then he decides that he is gettin back with the mother of the lil girl cause he was missin out on her life... but this is where it gets comfusing.... he left the mother in the first place because of all the fighting and the no emitoin that she showed towards him...... but now he is back with her and is back to the same thing constantly fighting and she doesnt show any affection towards him at all no cuddles.. no lovin.. even has his own separate blanket for the bed...... i just want if it is a good idea that he is forcing this realtionship just for Lil B or is it going to end again??? and can someone honestly have a realtionship with no affection towards eachother???? and another thing is that we have been apart for lil over a month and he has gotten back with me 3 times already....and he still goes on about how much he still cares and how i spoiled him and that there is no one that can turn him on like i can.
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Permalink Reply by GlamourGirl on -
You need to decide now Tiffany. It is unfair on your end. What is love if youre the only one suffering? I guess you need to talk it out with him and stick to your decision.
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Permalink Reply by Karla on -
Let him know about your feelings. Tell him that your uncomfortable about it and you two need to negotiate.
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Permalink Reply by Tiffany on -
so now the ex is sayin that he wants me back and that he is gettin his own place and leavin the mother of Lil B...... i want him back so badly and i have been waiting for him to say that he wants me back since he broke up with me
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Permalink Reply by Helen on -
Tiffany, it's up to yo to choose what to do, but, please, be sure that you really want it, that it's not just an addiction, but your real want!
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Permalink Reply by Ice on -
If it's making you happy then go but if it's gonna cause you pain again, then you need to think first.
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Permalink Reply by Fiona on -
I must say your situation is very similar to my sister's. And like I say to her, you're being weakened by his inability to make a firm decision. He knows that you're his way out, his protective shield cos whenever he feels he can't handle a difficult situation, he goes back to you and messes up with you again, as much as he needs to. He's unable to make a decision for his own sake, his little girl's and your sake. You cannot place your happiness in his hands. As bad as it sounds it's very comfortable for him to go back and forth cos he doesn't wanna lose anything. He's acting selfishly even if he doesn't realise it and the thing that is very frustrating is that he cannot make a final decision once and for all, he's drowning you with his problems and now you think it's your problem too. My sister feels the same way, that she's got to be understanding, patient, and extra loving+caring with him... and what about her?? What about all the pain and stress that he causes her when he tells her once again that he has to leave her for his daughter??? Jesus! and he's not even a worthy man!
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