Kissed by a Lesbian Friend

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Permalink Reply by Oksana on June 18, 2008 at 5:35pm

That's a very difficult situation... and I think that it will be difficult for her to be your best friend...

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Permalink Reply by Helen on June 19, 2008 at 11:01am

That is a big problem... I guess you won't be able to be friends any more... I'm so sorry... But maybe you are interested in more than friendship?

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Permalink Reply by Karla on June 19, 2008 at 3:23pm

Im not even interested in going to a deeper relationship with her but I care about her as a friend. I have been so blind not to realize that she has fallen for me. I miss our friendship and it's hard to accept that we could never be friends. Do you think I can still approach her and tell her that we should keep things the way the were- being friends? What would my boyfriend say if he discovers that my best friend is a lesbian and is in love with me?

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Permalink Reply by Oksana on June 19, 2008 at 3:48pm

Maybe she will be able to be your friend but I think it will be difficult for her...
And speaking about your boyfriend I think that it's your choice and he has to accept it...

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Permalink Reply by Barbara Siragusa on June 19, 2008 at 4:05pm

This is a difficult situation. When you have a good girl friend, you want to share everything with her, even perhaps some funny stories of sexual situations. As well as we tend to be a bit more physical than guys, sometimes hugging or linking arms when walking, as friends. So now you know she is sexually interested in you, this will be very difficult, as you will want to keep more of a physical distance. Perhaps if you give her distance for a few months, you can come back together as friends.....

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Permalink Reply by GlamourGirl on June 20, 2008 at 5:19pm

That is a very difficult situation but then you need to face the fact that you can no longer be friends with her now that you know that she's sexually attracted to you. Maybe you need to give it some time and maybe you could be friends again. You can tell your boyfriend, you didnt do anything wrong.

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Permalink Reply by iwoman21 on June 21, 2008 at 5:51am

dilemma ^_^

You have difficult situation, all coming back to you... if you decide to take distance with your friends its fine.. and other option, you decide stay close as friend, it will be... but you have assured her "just friend's !" this not easy, and you have to pay attention on her.. every time she trying something "more than friends" you should take distance... ( i am sure, she will trying), all of this to do for make her understand you and her just friend's, but you should understanding her, if your friend's doesn't want become friends, she want more than friend's... ^_^

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Permalink Reply by GlamourGirl on June 24, 2008 at 4:49am

Yep, this is a difficuly situation as every action will have its consequences. I guess you need to think before you act. Consider what will happen and who would be hurt if you continue to make friends with her. If you keep your distance, who will be hurt and who will benefit.

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Permalink Reply by Ice on June 24, 2008 at 3:28pm

Keep your distance to save what is left for both of you. If you're trying to save your friendship then I guess you need to give her some space for the meantime.

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Permalink Reply by Karla on June 25, 2008 at 3:10pm

Thanks for all the advice.

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