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The Other Woman
I'm the other woman. I should feel horrible, that it's a sin or something against my own kind. I don't. I'm mostly pleased with the situation. Mostly. A set back is we only see each other when he's in the mood though when I'm in the mood it's a no-go. I'm a little confused. I'm not exactly promiscuous and this is mostly new to me. I like him, being around him and all that. I'm not sure how to handle the situation. Should I move on? Should I push harder? Advice? I apologize if any of this upsets anyone.
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Permalink Reply by Oksana on -
Bella, I think you shouldn't punish yourself, everybody can be in your situation. You are not the reason their relationships don't work. If they were perfect he wouldn't be with you...
I cannot advise you what to do. It depends on his feelings to you. If he doesn't really love you than don't take it serious... If he loves you than he has to be with you.
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Permalink Reply by Helen on -
Dear Bella, that is not easy for you to be in such situation. But I guess that everyone sometimes can be there - or it's physical connection, or it's just mental, or it's just your dreams... He has a relationship and she is an other woman for you, but you know about that - you choose this way. She doesn't...That's the only difference between you. You are in the same positions. So I guess you can expect nothing - and you do that. If you believe that he can choose you and stay with you - only you - you can do some actions, but do expect nothing. And remember - he knows that you accept the other woman - and that's why he may think that you feel comfortable like that. And the other woman can change her personality, she can be Mary, Jane, Sandra... But you let her in your life. So if it's not your real wish - to have an other woman in your life - tell him about that, change it, or accept it. Anyway,just find the way when you are happy, and don't think about what do other people talk about that. Just be happy.
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